Ghosts can feed off of your fear. NEVER
show your fear to a ghost. Ghosts can feel your fear. They can take from that negative energy and grow from that. They can
grow larger literally as well. It feels like they are taking your breath away. Ghosts can, also, take your breath away. This
takes your energy away and gives them more energy. If this happens make sure you tell them to STOP and BACK AWAY NOW! When
this happens, that entity is showing you that they aren't feeling powerful and are trying to draw on YOUR power. Don't let
them! As I have said, whenever you feel powerless or whatever, you say whatever empowers you. Whatever makes you feel more
in control and protected. Most may say the Lord's Prayer. Some kinds of chant that is strong and makes you feel strong. Surround
the white light of protection around you as often as you remember.
No one, especially in death can control you! So if you are encountering a ghost that is being controlled by
another ghost, they need to know that they are in control of themselves. They have the power. And that entity needs to know
this in order to move on and continue with their soul development and perfecting. They are allowing that other soul to control
them. They need to stop this. Once he or she realizes that they are in control and no one can control them, then he or she
will move on.
This came from Echo Bodine's excellent book for helping Earthbound Children Souls:
"When there are children ghosts in a house, we've found it works very well to ask one of the adult ghosts, often the one most
resistant, to escort the children to the light and through to the other side. We tell the children to hold hands so that none
of them wanders off as they make their way through the tunnel."
Don't discourage your child in matters of the
spirit. They are more sensitive to spirits than you are as an adult (usually). So if they are talking about talking to a spirit
or talking to "nothing", then they more than likely are telling the truth. Same goes with animals. They sense at a higher
level than we do. If they start acting up or acting weird, you know what's going on, a spirit is in the house.
Ghosts may be stubborn and will stay until they feel
they have been punished enough for whatever reason. They will move on when they are ready. So you may not be able to get rid
of all of them. These ghosts have chosen to stay thinking they HAVE to be punished, when really they don't, they can move
on whenever they like.
Remember what I said above
about a lot of ghosts will refusing to go on to the other side because they do not want to face another person who has passed
on already. Like for example, if a person was molested by they father, or treated badly by a person, they will flat out refuse
to move on to the other side. But all they need to do is ask their spirit guide when crossing over that they do NOT want to
see that person. And they don't have to, for as long as they need. They don't know this and will insist that they will have
to see them. But they are hurt from their life with that person. Just reassure them that it IS true. You do not have to see
anyone you don't want to see on the Other Side.
one is very important. A Ghost that was an alcoholic or drug user (any addiction) when they were living will stick around
and try to find a body to inhabit that is living that same way as well. They jump into any body that is high, or whatever
the flavour is of the Ghost, just to feel that high again. If you are an addict, surround that white light around you and
ask God to protect you from these Ghosts, especially when intoxicated!
Sometimes I hear that people like that they have a ghost around and want to keep them. It's sad because
these are Soul's, not pets. They need to move on to the Other Side and continue perfecting their Soul. If they have low self
esteem and are staying because one of us wants them to, then they feel loved and protected in a way. But they don't know any
better. You really do need to tell these Ghosts to go on to the Other Side. Say it with CONVICTION. Again, do not speak of
them for at least three days, or they will think you miss them and come back again.
Portals are openings from this world to the Spirit World. Ouija boards and sťances, etc., will open these up.
If you don't know what you're doing you will invite too many entities that you may not be able to handle. Any entity can come
in from these Portals. Good or bad. Ask for protection from God, the universe; however you feel comfortable in asking. Get
a psychic in there if it gets way out of hand. Portals are very serious. If you continually think about ghosts, read about
ghosts, do things that invite them into our world, etc., the more ghosts you will attract.
Ghosts have no concept of time, as with the Other Side as well. They may be here for years, decades, etc. Make
sure you tell them the truth about what year it is. That might wake them up to what they are doing, or not doing in their
case. Tell them they need to move on to the Other Side.
Usually a residual haunting or "imprint" happens
from traumatic events, from civil wars to a mother looking for her baby. This could be the real spirits OR an "imprint". But
things that keep happening over and over again are most likely "imprints".
Also "imprints" of emotions can happen as well. Like
a curvy road that when you go by a certain area, it feels sad, you pass the area, and you are fine, that type of thing. Something
sad happened, there and it made an "imprint".
But there are those times that you see a residual
haunting. Of (using the same example) a mother looking for her baby, but she doesn't know she is dead (or she does) and continues
to look for her baby, she goes through the same event over and over again. If you see this, try to help that soul find its
way. Tell them they will find what they are looking for on the Other Side where they belong.